It took a long time for me to write this thing.LOL*joke
Only then I remember I had promise you the tips on " How to grow the confidence in yourself."
First.
Recognize your insecurities.
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| These might be the reason of you being so low in confidence. But toss it off. |
In easy
word, identify the thing that makes you feel lack. What is the thing that makes
you feel you feel uncomfortable or ashamed of yourself? The thing that tack
yourself down to the earth. This can be anything from head to the toes thing.
It can be your acne, toregrets, friends at school or it might be your past
time, the traumatic or negative experience that hold you from exposing
yourself. Whatever it making you feel unworthy, ashamed or inferior, identify
it, give it a name and jot it down. Don't worry... There's nothing to be feared
of. It's you. Just write it down and maybe you can tear off these written
pieces to start feeling positive on those point. It's like when you tear all
these written insecurities of yours, it was zapped from your life*although it
doesn't. Haha. It's just one of the methods to motivate you and it needs so
much of cooperation from yourself.
What was this 'tearing thingy'
tried to show you are that these insecurities were not everything. It just like
the piece of written paper, when you tear it off it signifies nothing to you.
You can always find new one and write again. *means that you can make change of
that, upgrade that whatever it is. Because it doesn't mean that these
insecurities would be with you like forever you can make change though. So,
just leave on and if you have the chance, put the miracle in it. Voila'
I just wanted to share you the
story of myself. I'm not perfect. Absolutely! My tooth was pretty unorganized
*prettily unorganized. Haha. I got this slanted teeth for many years till I
can't remember when the first time it became like this. It's truly ugly* you
got my word on that. Truly ugly that every time when there's a check
up with dentist especially when the doctor was super duper handsome*ignore
this, I don't feel like opening my mouth because it's ugly. You got it.
Horrible and I'm ashamed. But I've to face it because it's the real me. Yes. I
can avoid it for few times but it cannot be covered forever, right?
Because every time I wanted to talk I have to open my mouth. Eat,
open my mouth. Yawn, naturally open my mouth. So, it's not a thing that I can
hide from anyone. So, what I have to do is to face it whether I'm comfortable
with it or not. :)
And for few years I've been living
with those ugly tooth and participating with a lot and lots of event that had
me on stage, like debating, public speaking, coral speaking, reciting poem,
presentation and etc. everything that got me speaking, opening my mouth and
showing this slanting teeth to others but I don't mind. Why? Because this is
the real me and on December 2011 I got the miracle. The braces. Finally, I
managed to 'upgrade' my tooth after a long life journey with the slanted teeth.
:)
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| Did you see that teeth. I'm sure it's obvious. So, that the condition when it had brace on it. Awful isn't it? Try to imagine how it looks like when it doesn't have those braces on. * I can't find the old me without braces in my file. |
So, what's the purpose of feel
ashamed of you? Bring it on, babe! Well, I just don't know why some of you feel
so low about yourself. Really don't know. People. It's you. If it wasn't you
appreciate yourself then who else? It should be you, be the first supporter of
yourself, okay? Don't be bothered about your insecurities because everyone have
their one, no one is perfect even though they may look perfect but they aren't.
Believe me. This is the truth. It either they hide it very well or we're not
that sensitive to detect theirs. :)
Therefore, be confident of yourself
and stay calm. No harm. XOXO
* Wait for next tip and trick on
How to grow confidence in yourself. Cluck :9
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