DAY 69: Confident trick#1

Huhahaha... This is to fulfill my promise in my post DAY 23: I'm confident enough!YOU?
It took a long time for me to write this thing.LOL*joke
Only then I remember I had promise you the tips on " How to grow the confidence in yourself."

First.

Recognize your insecurities.

These might be the reason of you being so low in confidence. But toss it off.

In easy word, identify the thing that makes you feel lack. What is the thing that makes you feel you feel uncomfortable or ashamed of yourself? The thing that tack yourself down to the earth. This can be anything from head to the toes thing. It can be your acne, toregrets, friends at school or it might be your past time, the traumatic or negative experience that hold you from exposing yourself. Whatever it making you feel unworthy, ashamed or inferior, identify it, give it a name and jot it down. Don't worry... There's nothing to be feared of. It's you. Just write it down and maybe you can tear off these written pieces to start feeling positive on those point. It's like when you tear all these written insecurities of yours, it was zapped from your life*although it doesn't. Haha. It's just one of the methods to motivate you and it needs so much of cooperation from yourself.

What was this 'tearing thingy' tried to show you are that these insecurities were not everything. It just like the piece of written paper, when you tear it off it signifies nothing to you. You can always find new one and write again. *means that you can make change of that, upgrade that whatever it is. Because it doesn't mean that these insecurities would be with you like forever you can make change though. So, just leave on and if you have the chance, put the miracle in it. Voila'

I just wanted to share you the story of myself. I'm not perfect. Absolutely! My tooth was pretty unorganized *prettily unorganized. Haha. I got this slanted teeth for many years till I can't remember when the first time it became like this. It's truly ugly* you got my word on that. Truly ugly that every time when there's a check up with dentist especially when the doctor was super duper handsome*ignore this, I don't feel like opening my mouth because it's ugly. You got it. Horrible and I'm ashamed. But I've to face it because it's the real me. Yes. I can avoid it for few times but it cannot be covered forever, right? Because every time I wanted to talk I have to open my mouth. Eat, open my mouth. Yawn, naturally open my mouth. So, it's not a thing that I can hide from anyone. So, what I have to do is to face it whether I'm comfortable with it or not. :)

And for few years I've been living with those ugly tooth and participating with a lot and lots of event that had me on stage, like debating, public speaking, coral speaking, reciting poem, presentation and etc. everything that got me speaking, opening my mouth and showing this slanting teeth to others but I don't mind. Why? Because this is the real me and on December 2011 I got the miracle. The braces. Finally, I managed to 'upgrade' my tooth after a long life journey with the slanted teeth. :)

Did you see that teeth. I'm sure it's obvious. So, that the condition when it had brace on it. Awful isn't  it?
Try to imagine how it looks like when it doesn't have those braces on. * I can't find the old me without braces  in my file.

So, what's the purpose of feel ashamed of you? Bring it on, babe! Well, I just don't know why some of you feel so low about yourself. Really don't know. People. It's you. If it wasn't you appreciate yourself then who else? It should be you, be the first supporter of yourself, okay? Don't be bothered about your insecurities because everyone have their one, no one is perfect even though they may look perfect but they aren't. Believe me. This is the truth. It either they hide it very well or we're not that sensitive to detect theirs. :)

Therefore, be confident of yourself and stay calm. No harm. XOXO

* Wait for next tip and trick on How to grow confidence in yourself. Cluck :9

DAY 66:Pimple? Zap it!

Stop it! Don't pinch your pimple.It might getting worst.

"Pimple! Oh noooo!"

Most of you must have faced this situation before, right? And the days go on with those pimple getting bigger and eventually leave you a scar*again, scar! What makes it even worst is that, it's really hard to get rid those scars. The range of products in market doesn't promise you, that the scar and growing pimples would be removed. 

So, once in a blue moon...LOL. Today I've a tips and tricks to be shared with my beloved readers. Try it out! Who knows it might work out. That bothersome, frustrating acne might start to diminish and disappear, like ever. :)

I've a lot of tips here*a bunch of collection that I search throughout the magazines and internet and compile it here. Maybe you should try it one by one, who knows one of it might be the most effective for you!

1. Have you heard about aloe Vera? Take its gel and put in onto the scarred areas. Rinse with warm water after the gel dried on your face. Its gel also can also be made into a juice and drink it one times per day.*I won't drink it. It stinks. Haha. Maybe we can move on to next tip.

2. Squeeze lemon to get the juice. Put it on your face 2 times daily and drink the lemon juice.*accepted

Lemmmooon!

3. Blend cucumber and filter it. Take the cucumber husks rub on your face. After half an hour, rinse with   

Warm water.

4. Take 10 pieces of sireh*betel leaf and grind the leaf. Then rub the scarred place. Wash after it dry.

5. Mix honey with grinded cinnamon .Apply it on face during night. Wash with warm water the next day. Apply it for three times a week.

Cinnamon.

6. Take a piece of cassava and peel the skin. Discard the skin. Then clean and grate the cassava .Next, Crush it to get the water. Rub the water on your scars.

7. the most simple way was to mix honey and powder*bedak sejuk eh. And then rub in your scars. As simple as that!

Powder*bedak sejuk

Who knows at the end of the day.You might transform. Haha

DAY 60:Finally...it ends.

Our war was finally end. Quite relieve. Huhhhh..* deep breath...
The question was awesome! especially our essay question. Exactly the same as the one that we did in class before this-the same! But the 'melancholy' part #just remember this word.totally forgot about it when I want to express the sadness in my essay.damn! ... is that I know the idea of that particular question but I somehow realize that the structure of my essay*the one in the exam was kind of loose. No determination. It's kind of 'beat around the bush' like I was mumbling in the essay babbling about the deforestation without a clear means. I had the point*actually it was given. but it was not fully clarified, I just explain it on the base and tadaa..! Finish.

I am expecting this reaction when my English coordinator read my essay

 That's the situation for my English paper today. The sentence arrangement was shit. I think I've lost my ability to write an article or and essay in proper manner. The whole idea was a piece of junk as I hate the way I'm explaining the things. No maturation there. It was almost like a little kid's essay. Rubbish!*at least for me. Yes, by means of word used I can get quite*quite yeah good word usage but the grammar organization.? Again.? Please flush away my essay. I totally hate it even though it was written by myself. For grammar I was quite don't really care about it # not much. but for the sentence structure?It's hell! I've really lost my ability write it in versatile way.Like the one I used*for quite sometime... to be. It had a lot of mumbling in it that makes it long - really long but zero! No facts!. Just a babbling. .. I really need to do something with it or else I'm going to die or at least score bad in my upcoming MUET test. Seriously! Make up your writing Syeikha!. Grammar, sentence organization, style of writing * make it versatile-literally! so for your upcoming MUET test you can achieve your desired band 5 or 6. Not below than that! Mind it!
The first thing that I've to do is to correct back my writing style in this blog. The way I expressed my writing in this blog was really childish and unorganized. (Peeps, did you have any difficulties in attaining the idea of my past post.?Are you?Please, comment below).

LOL. That's soooo me!The latest me.-Terrible

I think I really really have to do a change here and to be active back in my reading. Not just read those books that related to my studies, I have to read others though. Speaking. Yes! That's included too. The last time I really really speak English. I mean real English was many years back. Long lost time. Now-not now, the few years back I speak 'rojak' English as a trend and I think it looks enjoyable though.*fool. Now, I have to face the consequence, my English wasn't getting better, it was getting worst-really worst.No doubt.!

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and... what else??!.....Oh! Switch 'on' my mind to catch any newest issue, general information. That may help. Miss the time I would find any article on something, keep it and read it back when I'm free. Use the issue in my essay. It really help me-a lot! and....read the 'high level magazine' not the cheeky, cheesy or what ever style magazine that would make my thinking to be immature. During my primary level I've read the 'high level thinking magazine' that really make me 'advance' from others especially in giving the opinion but ever since I'm in form 4, I've totally stop reading those 'high level thingy' and preferred the 'childish magazine' that had no critical thinking written in it just f.u.n. awww..such a lost...!It's a regret.
I REALLY NEED A CHANGE!REAL CHANGE....

*let's pod-casting! to learn their 'lingo'! So that we can have their accent in our daily pronunciation. Voila'!!!

XOXO

DAY 23:I'm confident enough! YOU?

Just now have a short thought.

Suddenly I sorted out, all this while I have tough confidence for myself.*kembang. kembang

Quite perasanlah. Jarang sangat myself hid myself behind for any task.

Mesti jugak nak mempamerkan lubang hidung yang sedia cantik ni ke hadapan

Quite a long time jugak. Since primary school lagi rasanya.

Ke depan. Becoming presenter. Debater. Pelakon. Penyair jalanan pun pernah.

Nak kata ada hikmah ke tak ah? With this confidence??

If I look it from good sight, memang berhikmah sangatlah confidence level yang tinggi.

At least awak takdelah terkedek-kedek, passing the task to others for anything. 

Because you have the confidence, umpama Superman yang kacak anda kehadapan menyelamatkan kawan-kawan yang serba ketakutan.haha XD *takde niat nak bajet.

But from the other sight...

Err...Err...Err..

Macam mana ek nak cakap. Oleh kerana anda punya confidence level tinggi adalah makhluk Tuhan yang paling seksi yang cuba mengambil kesempatan.#no specific person.It's a warn.Tak payah nak perasan :P lol

Kadang tu rasa nak hampuk pun ada dengan manusia ni.

Selalu terkena macam ni.

"Alah Syeikha, kau kan berani pergilah sound dia.."

"Syeikha, kaulah present.Kau kan berani"

"Syeikha , bla...blaa.bla..."

Sekali dua bolehlah ambo melayan. Empat lima - dua puluh kali. Mahu aku bagi penampar

Awal-awal bolehlah terima kalau "kanak-kanak" dalam bantuan ini minta tolong.

Adalah 'feel' sikit nak jadi superhero.

yang seterusnya terus buat aku rasa ,

"korang tak ada mulut ke nak buat sendiri?"#sila terasa kalau nak sangat terasa.hahaXD

Kadang-kadang tu permintaan yang diornag suruh aku voice out kan sangatlah melampau,

Ada ke suruh sound cikgu?

Nak sound sound sendirilah, aku pula yang kena. Aku tak ada masalah dengan cikgu. Apasal pula aku yang kena sound kan? Sungguh tak memasal diorang ni. =,='

Sebenarnya, aku tak adalah kisah sangat kalau korang nak suruh aku jadi tukang voice out korang except for "sound" cikgu tu lah. Itu gua ambil kisah.

Best je sebenanya jadi presenter and so on. Best sangat! Like seriously.!!

Tapi satu je..

Korang tak jealous ke? Muak ke?*Yelaa, asyik aku je.

No. I mean. Selama ni aku je yang menunjukkan lubang hidung kat depan, korang tak nak try ke?

Rasa apa yang aku rasa.

"Alaa, aku bukan tak nak Syeikha. Masalahnya, aku takut. Aku asal ke depan je. Gabra semacam."
"Rasa nak terkencing pun ada"*hiperbola -,-

Korang takut? Gabra?
Seriously cakap, dulu aku pun macam tu.

Takut juga.

But what I did?

Fight it!

Lawan dengan ketakutan sendiri.Lawan habis-habisan.

Berkesan.

Prove?

Tak prove. Aku jamin sendiri. Aku prove dia.Haha XD

"Kau cakap lawan, tapi lawan tu macam mana?"

Ah.Sudah...

Haha.

*tunggu my next post.okay? cluck:6

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So, these are the tips and tricks. :)
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Confident Trick#1

DAY 22:Nasihat untuk saya dan awak|Wanita:)

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Saya tak cukup baik.
Tapi saya tak nak benda yang tak baik jadi kepada saya.
Hope the same for you  and everybody.

DAY 21: Outta ma way!

Yes.
I have my plan.
I write everything.
I know each step that I must take.
I'm aware where am I heading next.
Everything was super duper clear for me.

But...
Everything change when comes the
"UNEXPECTED"
that thing that hinder me from moving on.
There's always always little, medium, large things that stop me.
sometimes that particular thing really disrupting the plan that I've prepared.
Blank*

DAY 18:Whatever you think, Think the opposite.

When you look back there will be things you will regret.
You made the wrong decision.
Wrong.
You make the right decision.
life is all about decision.
Whatever decision you make is the only one you could make.
Otherwise you would make a different one.
Everything we do we choose,
So what is there to regret?
You are the person you chose to be.

You can make your body anything that you want to be.
You are the raw material.
You can be a doctor.
You can be a housewife.
You can be anything you want.What you want,you will get.
But you have to want it enough to go about getting it.
Dreaming and talking about it won't achieve anything.
There's only one person who can determinethe shape of your life.
YOU.
but who are you going to be?
Who?




To think what are you going to be is to thing what you want and wish for.?
I WISH.
I WISH means : wouldn't it be nice if...
If you always make the right decision, the safe decision, the one most people make, you will be the same as everyone else.
Always wishing life was different.
I WANT.
I WANT means: if I want it enough I'll get it.
Getting what you want means  making the decision you need to make you get what you want.
Not the decisions those around you think you should make.
Making the safe the decision is dull, predictable and leads nowhere new.
The unsafe decision causes you to think and respond in a way you hadn't thought of.
And that thought will lead to other thought which will help you achieve what you want.
Start taking bad decisions and it will take you to a place where others only dream of being.



Any decision you wanna take.
You are the one who chose it to be.
Try take the risk.
Don't make the decision only based what others think right,
What others think it is safe.
try to think differently.It makes your different.
What ever you think,THINK THE OPPOSITE.
No one had the most scheme of what was the most best decision.
Just go on with the thing that you believe was the best.
:)

DAY 16:Set up the goals of yours|Achieve it!

"Alaaa.mentang-mentanglah dah nak new year startlah posting things like goals goals segala.Sepak bola masuk gol je lah"

Hey!Hey!
Guys this thing that I was posting today has nothing to do with the upcoming new year eh. Not.Not at all.
have the thought  of writing this because our beloved English coordinator was asking us.

"So till now, what have you all achieved your goal for this year?"

All of us like,"....."

then she said,"No one had achieved anything?

Suddenly there's a voices came out," We don't even know what we want Madam."

SET!
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"Seriously?!then how did you know that you have achieved anything.?"

"It's just come, Madam!"Ryan reply her.

"It's all miracle,Madam.Miracle!" me added up.

So that's the event that had brought me to this "Goals" thingy.

Our Madam had achieved most of her goals except for two ;
 reducing her weight and travelling overseas.
but that's not the matter that I want to bring up now.
It's the thing that she did have her goals and enthusiastically try to achieve her goals.

PLAN.
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I was impressed by the spirit that she had brought out. So impressive!

because of I was sooo   terpengaruh with her.
I've realize the importance of having a goals and achieving it
tak jadi juga if you just set your goal but put no effort to achieve it it.Kan?
like my last goal
Konon-kononnya nak 4flat but my effort was like,
 "tiiiiiittttt........tiitt.....tiiiiiitttttt...ttiiiii.....titititititiitittit"
"Maaf pesakit tak dapat diselamatkan".

ACHIEVE!
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 Nazak sangatlah effort yang saya tampilkan ye tuan dan puan sekalian.
Guys,
Make sure you really really understand what your goals is.
and after knowing what it's all about then plan ; what you should do, when should you start, how can you achieve it and etc.
By doing this you'll have a clear view of what you gonna do to achieve your goals.
Next is,long lasting enthusiasm.
Why did I add long lasting there?
Pernah tak dengar peribahasa "hangat hangat tahi ayam"
that's it!
the problem when you just have your enthusiasm waktu awal awal je, as time goes on you pun lemah longlai tak berdaya lagi.Got it.
Long lasting enthusiasm, hold into it.Okay!:)))

So peeps, anything our goals is just work it out and achieve it. God Bless!:D



#just now I ada public speaking and I believe that I'd it well XD
Wedding thing.Takdelah sebencana like what I thought, okay je!

DAY 14:Argue with yourself |True or Wrong

"the malicious inner voices immunity was too strong.strength-all was used
but still it fight and fight
again,
in the end I'm the one who was lost :("

Argue wasn't an offence.Be pleased to do so
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Fight it back!
Never ever ever lose to it.
If you can't quiet the inner voice, then at least use it to your advantage,Syeikha.
Use it.
If it is negative neutralize it, if it is positive neutralize it.
Every time you hear yourself contradicting the speaker,
STOP! and take the other point of view.
Wash up your brain.
Suggest to the brain all the reason why the speaker may be correct and you are the one who came with the wrong concept.
by arguing yourself, you may open yourself to the information being provided.
That's the best case of fighting the inner voice.
but failing that gives you advantages too
at least you strengthen your own argument.
Succeeding or failing to fight your inner voice never be a loss.
the most important thing is to argue with yourself-to fight back the inner voice that tried to make you confuse.
Cluck:6

applicable to our life also mehXD
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lol:D
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#misspend the time. end up regretting it. I've lost my precious time today:((
I shouldn't buy.I shouldn't read.Novel_ you steal my time.:(

DAY 10:Malicious inner voices

Have you ever think about how did yourself learn all this while??
Did ya??
As far as I am concern(*kuikui) most of us don't bother to much about how did they learn.
Me too.Anyone with me?!??
All these while I thought that learning process just come naturally.
Heard to others either in conversation or in lecture and simply absorb all their saying, right??
But things are getting harder lately.
I hardly able to absorb all those information that my lecturer was presenting.
Sometimes totally lost till I ended up saying,
"Ala...takpelah.balik bilik nanti aku study. Kaji sendiri je lah."
Daaaaaa..that's it. and almost 60% of my own kajian.ended up without a start. Got it.?
It's a mess fella.!
Its kinda weird why am I becoming like this...
Maybe because too much facts, figures and, experience stuffed into my brain causing it to have less room for new ideas and thoughts?
Okay. That's totally rubbish.
How- on earth that our brain got its limit.? Ingat ni pendrive ke cik Syeikha oi...=.='
What ever it is, the need for learning never ends, so your desire to do so should always outweigh your desire to be right. The world is changing and new ideas pop up everyday; incorporating them into your life will keep you engaged and relevant.






and....
after few times mind-troubleshoot.
I find out that there's 97.9% of probability that my INNER VOICE was actually disturbing my fact crunching mood. Sort of dangerous malicious virus is now attacking my mind......!(absolute crap mumble.)

Sometimes it talk "diamond",sometimes just "crap.

WHAT?!inner voice??? wth are you talking about.

Oh well baby....
You know the one I am talking about. It's the little voice that offers a running commentary when you are listening to someone. It's the voice that brings up your own opinion about the information being provided.
THE TALKING MIND.


ME,myself always always and always, I repeat again always do that.

When my lecturer start to say this and this
at the same mind my Great fella INNER VOICE would like to say,

'Ooooh.......It's actually like this and this.relate to this and that...',
so on and so forth.
and guess what happen to me???